FEMALES GO AND LEARN HOW TO COOK

Femi Joseph

One of the mother’s important responsibilities is to teach their female children how to cook, take care of their husband and make their homes. Whether you (female) want to be married or not, and not spending all time teaching you the art of Make-up, Bead making, Gele tying or going for Owambe (parties) every weekend, don’t say its because you’re surrounded by domestic staff and super-domestic mother who would rather do thing herself.

Mothers on the other hand are also advised to send their female children to Catering School without wasting time during a short holiday because it will be better for them (one way or the other), even if your mother is dead and there are no aunties around you to teach you, what in the world happened to Google? You can google up virtually every food that exists and learn how to cook them, all the time you spend pouting and posing and taking selfies could be wisely spent on this.

I thought your on “no need of being domestic” may change one day when you find a really good man you want to spend the rest your life with, so why allow another woman be his darling, be wise, go and learn how to cook.

However, in one of Pastor E. A. Adeboye’s controversial sermon on marriage four things he quoted to have said while addressing his congregation are as follow:

·         Males should not marry a lady who cannot cook

·         Females should not marry a man without a job

·         Males should not marry a lady who cannot pray for at least one hour

·         Men should not marry a worldly lady

Every woman and home maker must be responsible in all of their duties at home, if you (woman) wants to be happily married to an African man, even if he has all the money in the world to hire ten cooks to cook for him alone, it is still your responsibility to cook for him and take care of him as much as you can; except you are extremely busy or both of you are not living together and both have reached a consensus.

Besides, if care is not taken another woman would work her way into his life and steal him from you, this is because men like to be pampered and generally treated like kings, so why will your husband work hard, tend to your needs, take care of you and you think there is no point cooking for him or making him salivate and run all the way home from office just to taste your food?

If you want to be happily married, you must give your husband your best shot so the enemy does not find a way to get in your marriage and scatter what could have been designed to give you a beautiful life.